life is choice

Your happiness is your freedom to do everything you want and while doing that, you’re known with your identity – Mario Teguh Quote.


I still remember, 3 years ago I had debate with my friend, Tiara, about our future. Actually we had same destination which is happiness, but we have different way to make it real. I preferred myself to graduating herself with a degree, and I preferred myself to graduating myself with big dream. Graduating here meant success, graduate is a word that imagery a final that you want to reach in life. Kenya said that my choice is wrong because how come people with less education success in business , yet they can get any job without title “it’s like dreaming at noon” she said. And I said her choice is wrong because how come people spend much money to study while they only do it lazily, cheat their friends and wait for long time to get succeed, “if we can run why should we walk” I said at that time. We have our own argument.

There are some things that make our idea different. First of all, graduating with a degree consider on formal education. It makes education and bachelor as priority, meanwhile graduating with big dream prefer to build new business or try to find a job than go to college to finish bachelor degree.

Second, by graduating with degree mostly we must spend our life in library, trapped by many books that teach us with theory. While graduating with big dream we spend our life by observing our surrounding which teach us practically and implicitly.

Third, big bravery and very strong willing is indeed more on graduating with big dream than on graduating with degree. Because, on graduating with big dream such a gambling. We hope for nothing and makes nothing become something. Than graduating with a degree, you just sit down in the class, study hard and you’ll graduate your bachelor with good score and hope that a company interest in you.
Commonly, graduating with a degree is done by people who have extra money, because it needs much money to pay college, book, transportation and anything than graduating with a big dream is reverse on it.

Both of them have advantage and disadvantage. We can’t judge which one is good or which one is better. Graduating with a degree and graduating with big dream are choices in life. But if I may give suggestion, better we combine both of them become graduating a degree with a big dream. So, while we are studying, we also manage our time. Such have part time job. So we make it balance, degree and dream. There are many things that we can get, example: we don’t need to ask our parents money anymore, we can have experience before we graduate and it can be a good benefit for us and the most important is we finish a degree and reach our big dream.

Success or happiness is a result, and the way we achieve it, is a process. Everyone has their own way and we’re free to choose which one that we’ll do. Remember, life is choice and we have to choose the best for our life. The most important thing, we still be our self to get succeed and keep pray to the God.